Dear Friend,
If you’re tired of doubting yourself and want to learn a simple, fast way to build unshakable confidence so you can achieve any goal, then you’re going to want to pay special attention to this message.
Does this sound like a stretch to you?
If so, I know exactly how you feel.
I used to feel the same way until I discovered the 3-step secret strategy for building confidence that virtually no one knows about.
My name is Lisa Lane Brown and I’m interested in high achievement, just like you. And if you’re anything like me, being confident, successful and happy means the world to you.
And like me, you may have even tried a lot of different approaches to boost your confidence so you can finally the live the life you deserve.
In my quest for unshakable confidence, I tried all kinds of ‘confidence tricks’ from books and seminars. They were things like:
But after all that time, effort, and money, I still didn’t have unshakable confidence and inner security.
I still had self-limiting beliefs. I still had performance anxiety. I still procrastinated. I still had a nasty inner critic.
I don’t have to tell you that success was hard to come by, because I would take two steps forwards and one step backwards.
The worst part was that when my confidence suffered, I didn’t feel happy to be me.
Fortunately, I was desperate to discover why unshakable confidence was so hard to create. I wanted the real solution.
You see, I believe that gaining confidence should be simple, fast, and fun, not hard and exhausting.
It’s just not right that most people are doubting and second-guessing themselves for no good reason.
That’s why I’m writing this message today.
I believe you are too good a person and have too much to offer to the world to lack confidence when you need it most.
I know this because you’re one of the few people on the planet reading about confidence and success right now!
Here’s how I stumbled upon this discovery.
I first got interested in unshakable confidence, self-mastery, and success as an elite athlete. One week I was invincible…the next my confidence came crashing down. It really hurt me all the time.
Quite by chance I met a fascinating sports coach named Wally Kozak. Wally is one the top ten hockey experts in the world, and he knew about my struggles because his daughter, Stacey, also played my sport.
I guess he was tired of watching my performance go up and down like a yo-yo because what he shared with me one day changed my life forever…in a few short hours, Wally helped me master the secret of how to build unshakable confidence so I could achieve my goals.
No endless affirmations, no cognitive thinking exercises, no exhausting therapy sessions.
The results? I scored the winning goal in the dying minute of the World Championships less than three weeks later!
And much to my astonishment and delight, I did the exact same thing in the next two World Championships.
Yet the real shocker was how easy it was to "get" this unshakable confidence thing mastered!
I then used the same 3-step strategy to transform my love life, my business, and my financial life too.
I’m not telling you all this to brag (I’m pretty sure you’re not a ringette player!).
I’m telling you this because the path Wally sent me down allowed me to discover the root cause of why so many people lack confidence.
You see, low confidence does not come from lack of experience, or the fact that you don’t have the right credentials, or that you don’t look like a fashion model.
Just ask Elvis, Marilyn Monroe and John Belushi. They were successful, famous, and loved – yet known as some of the most insecure people in Hollywood.
Also, no one is “destined” to have low confidence, as many would have you believe. Some of the most confident people on earth started out riddled with self-doubt (think Oprah and JK Rowling).
Here’s the real reason we all struggle with confidence:
Fear.
Fear (stress, anxiety, nerves) is the #1 thing that prevents us from being confident and achieving our goals.
I know what you’re thinking. “Duh! Everyone knows that fear is the #1 obstacle to success.”
Maybe so. But it wasn’t until I dug deep into the subject that I realized just how much fear we all have in our everyday lives.
We fear being broke, rejected, laid off…that we are not smart or sexy enough…that we are fat, frumpy, boring, annoying, etc. The list of what we fear is pretty much endless.
Fear is why we all hate setbacks, because when you have a setback, doubt and fear creeps into your mind and cripples your confidence.
“Can I do it?”
“Does he really love me?”
“What if I lose all my money?”
You want to try again, but you’re worried it might not work out.
The harsh truth is that fear weakens confidence. It causes you to question your game plan, your methods, and worst of all, yourself.
The solution, therefore, is simple:
When you learn how to eliminate fear for real, your confidence becomes unshakable.
That's it.
You don’t “lose” your confidence. It's not in your car or under your bed.
Your confidence is always there, inside you, ready to carry you to success.
It’s just that to access your confidence, first you need to defeat your fear.
The problem?
There’s very little information out there on defeating fear that works!
That’s why I developed the secret 3-step confidence building method.
The key to this method ONE crucial ingredient.
The all-important “secret sauce” if you will. What is that ONE ingredient?
It’s very simple.
It’s courage.
If you infuse your life with courage, you defeat your fears and unleash lasting, unshakable confidence. This paves the way for you to achieve your goals in a fast and fun way, without superficial self-help or exhausting therapy.
The reason it’s so simple is that you are not starting from scratch. You are just unlocking the innate courage already inside you using the simple 3-step method.
This is exciting. It means YOU can learn how to eliminate fear, flood yourself with unshakable confidence, and become a person of action no matter what setbacks you face.
Here’s the exact 3-step formula for eliminating fear and building unshakable confidence so you can achieve any goal.
Step 1 is called the Breaking Free Protocol.
Step 1 is where you use courage to free yourself from your emotional baggage – your hurt and pain from the past.
This is key, because your emotional baggage is one of the main things keeping your fear in place today.
You see, most people mistakenly believe that fear is about the future. They worry about what will happen if they fail, lose, or get rejected. But as Dr. Deepak Chopra once said:
“What you fear has already happened to you.”
What he meant is that when you have a past loss or failure, unless you get over it completely, you’ll worry it will happen again.
This is perfectly logical.
Years ago, I broke my leg competing. Like most athletes, I came back too early. When I skated on the ice, I was terrified. All I kept thinking was, “I sure hope nobody skates near me.”
Not the best mindset, right?
I stayed off my leg, got rehab for a few weeks, and presto! When I went back to play, I was not afraid at all, because I was completely healed.
It’s the same in life.
It doesn’t matter what your setbacks have been, whether it was a broken heart, a bad investment, or a boss who didn’t see your potential.
Until you free yourself of past pain, you will worry that the same thing will happen again.
The best way to break free of your emotional baggage is to dramatically increase your self-acceptance.
Self-acceptance is the courage to love yourself when you have a negative feeling, whether it’s fear or anger or shame.
Most of us are rather pitiful at loving ourselves when we feel negatively. We put ourselves down any time we aren’t 100% positive, confident, and happy.
Next, we stuff down our feelings, hoping they will go away.
This never works. It makes us depressed and anxious. It cripples our self-esteem. It makes us weirdly addictive with food, drugs, TV, alcohol, and even shopping!
Stuffing down feelings is the reason why most people never truly let go of past pain. No one has taught them the miracle of self-acceptance.
On the other hand, tremendous relief comes from self-acceptance. You do not have to pretend, cover up, or deny your fears and frustrations anymore.
Self-acceptance also sets you up for Step 2 of the unshakable confidence building strategy.
Step 2 is called the Doubt Destroyer Technique.
In Step 2 you use courage to reject the negative lies about yourself you’ve believed until now.
The two biggest lies most people believe are:
“I am not lovable/worthy of love.”
“I am not good enough.”
When you believe such lies, it is very painful. It is the worst crime against the self.
We may want to believe that we can achieve our goal…that we are loved…that we are truly worthy of happiness. But our fear of disappointment keeps us from rejecting the lies.
We think, “What if I get fooled again?”
What if we believe in ourselves only to have the dream blow up on us again?
It feels safer to give up hope. “Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me.”
A great way to reject negative lies about yourself is to use courage (there’s that word again!) to face the truth.
When you face the truth, you figure out why a past failure or rejection happened to you. A simple technique for this is to ask yourself:
“Why did I fail?” or “Why did I get rejected?”
Once I worked with a couple on the brink of divorce. She was angry because her husband kept putting off a remodel of their home. I asked her why she thought he was procrastinating.
She replied, “It’s because I’m stout.”
“Pardon me?” I asked. I was sure I had misheard her.
“I’m short and fat!” she almost yelled it.
This was a ridiculous lie. This woman is beautiful. It was so silly her husband started laughing right there on the phone.
But she believed it, and this lie upset her every time they talked about it.
She was so relieved that her “stoutness” was not an issue that her fear of rejection died almost instantly.
When you face the truth, you can finally let go of the painful LIES you’ve been believing about yourself.
Plus, facing the truth sets you up for Step 3 of building unshakable confidence.
Step 3 is called the Flipping the Switch.
In Step 3, you use courage to mentally Flip the Switch from a negative self-image to a positive one.
Your self-image is the vision you have of yourself deep in your unconscious mind. It is a complete blueprint of the kind of person you consider yourself to be.
This is so important because all your actions, emotions, and decisions are consistent with the beliefs inside your self-image.
Convinced you aren’t good with money? You'll find a way to just earn the bare minimum.
Consider yourself unlucky in love? You'll be the nice guy or girl who finishes last.
Not sure you are a game changer in your field? You won't pursue worthy goals.
The good news is you can take control of your self-image. You can change how you see yourself.
And when you do, something magical happens. You will finally trust yourself.
Self-trust is why the unlikeliest of people can come from poverty or even abusive situations (think Oprah and J.K. Rowling) and still win.
I just gave you an overview of the 3-step strategy for eliminating fear and anxiety, building unshakable confidence, and achieving any goal.
This simple strategy has helped my clients and I achieve goals we never thought possible.
Now that you know the 3-step strategy, I’m going to show you exactly how to do it.
I’ve created a web class on how to build unshakable confidence, eliminate fear, and achieve any goal in 30 days or less.
In just a minute I’ll tell you exactly what it will include - but just let me say here that this is not a super long 27 module course or a 318-page PDF book. It’s a short, impactful, 60-minute web class with no fluff and no filler.
We’ve extensively tested this confidence building strategy with over 7,452 people in live seminars to make sure it works, and that’s what I’m going to share with you in this on demand web class.